Published March 22, 2023
Willy's Whimsical Wednesday Words of Wisdom
Meeting your neighbors. I am often surprised at how many people
purchase a home without ever talking to their potential neighbors. I
realize that neighbors come and go with time and life changes. But I
feel that sometimes a basic meet and greet can go a long way in
developing a practical relationship with a close neighbor. A gentle
informational conversation can steer off a future escalation. "Hey, I
was thinking of building a fence along our mutual property line" What do
you think of that idea? Many times folks just start in on something
without mentioning the project to a neighbor. I'm not suggesting that
your neighbor has to approve of your plans. Simply stating your
intention clarifies the process so a potentially sensitive neighbor
doesn't fill in the blanks with their imagination.
Here is an example: We
bought a home in a rural location. I hauled our RV into the property
and shortly after took it into the shop for repairs. Brought it back
home for a day or two and left for a short camping trip returning two
days later. I was new to the neighborhood. A couple weeks later I was
informed by another neighbor to be careful because there was someone
moving a "compound" into the area. After a brief conversation it turned
out to be me!! Taking the RV back forth in a short procession on a
driveway that had historically seen little to no use led to a neighbor
making things up as they went. Odd example but nonetheless, very real.
Solvable problem with some casual conversation. As they say, talk is
cheap. Litigation is expensive however! Run with a cool motor.
Have a Willy Great Day!!
